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Brought from Urth to Gor, Clysa must face the challenges of her new life as a mere Bonds-maid. ***************************** ""In denying it we deny our nature. In betraying it we betray no one but ourselves..."" -Explorers of Gor

Monday, March 7, 2011

Differences between Online and Offline Living

This here is where anybody to everybody gets confused. It’s where people tends to get fantasy and reality or real life, gets mixed up.First off when someone online says that they’re Gorean, doesn’t mean that they were born on Gor. It plainly states that, they’re basically acting within customs and conventions of the Gorean society and culture.
Even now, some of these Goreans may only engage within the online role-playing life. While some, might introduce Gorean elements into their everyday lifestyle. And few would even do both. Plus, their definition of what it is to be Gorean varies. Sometimes drastically.
Now as I stated, many will take it too far and lose sight between the differences of fantasy and real life. Those who are “so called” Gorean doesn’t understand the full concept of the relationships between Master and slave. Yes, there is control over the slave, but not as harsh. Even though a slave is to obey their Master’s commands. There are still limitations for both to follow.
Okay first, for online slaves, it is usually to be seen and not be heard, unless given permission to speak or when spoken to. Also, they must serve and obey all who is a free person, besides their own Owner. Plus, there are all the positions that a slave must perform. For instance, when a slave girl is kneeling before a Free Man or Master, their knees are spread open. But, if the girl is kneeling before a Free Woman or Mistress, then the knees are suppose to be closed tight and eyes cast down. For a slave should never look into the eyes of a Free Woman, unless given permission to do so.
So, as any could see, online slavery is a bit harder and harsher to follow and understand. Also, all who is online must follow the online House or site rules, this way; there won’t be any confusion between players. Plus, the rules is for all, Free and slave alike. It’s there for everyone’s protection. Also, in the online Master-slave lifestyle there are so many rules and regulations to follow.
For instance, as an online slave, they can only have one Master, unless they’re a house slave or owned by the site. There, the slave must obey the Owner of the House (as role players will put it), along with all Free Members of the House.
In addition, all must be descriptive in the actions that are being done within the room. As an example, a slave needs to describe their movements when serving someone. They must put into detail the way their body moves, how they feel as they serve and takes place within the different areas they are working in. It is all very important.
Now, if someone is an online Master or Mistress, they can have as many slaves as they want. From one slave up to whatever. The most that I have ever witnessed was fifteen to one House. But, just like the online slaves, even the free needs to be descriptive in all movements and actions, this way, it keeps everything active and it lets others know what they’re doing.
Finally, within the offline or real life lifestyle, it is almost the same thing, yet it’s very different. Here, it’s usually between couples within the privacy of their own home. But, there are limitations to it all, for it’s real life and there many activities that goes around it, such as work, school or family, for that matter.
So, both parties have to set up the limitations. When a slave isn’t doing any activities that are outside the home, then they need to do their domestic chores, before they could do anything else. For instance, cleaning house, preparing meals, or doing lawn work. All of these must be done, before they could have any leisure time of watching television or playing on the computer.
The Master or Mistress when their home, they make sure that the slave does their chores and might reward them with either a treat or extra leisure time. Or if they wish it, rewards the slave with pleasure.
For my opinion, that there is one of the best connections between a man and woman. It’s when they could get to know each other more, expanding their relationship.
But, as I said before, with this type of relationship in real life, both parties needs to agree into doing this. It cannot be a one person decision. It must always be an agreement between both parties to make everything work out right. If not, then this not for those who abuse these rights to be part of the Master-slave relationship.
Plus, this also will work even if you’re either a dominant at home and a slave online or vise-versa. It helps out when needed, when telling the differences between both worlds.

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